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Taktie\u017e sa l\u00ed\u0161ia […]","datePublished":"2017-02-27","dateModified":"2023-04-27","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.sjm.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.sjm.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/afe3e9c307ddf0b756c397ad75c6ecdba1f9da628b10651fe33a13bba6407ccd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/afe3e9c307ddf0b756c397ad75c6ecdba1f9da628b10651fe33a13bba6407ccd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"sjm.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.sjm.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280261_w2010_t1493282504.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.sjm.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280261_w2010_t1493282504.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.sjm.sk\/co-zeny-hladaju-u-muza\/","wordCount":1051,"articleBody":"\tNa svete je xy mu\u017eov. S\u00fa r\u00f4zni. Maj\u00fa in\u00fa farbu, postavu, v\u00fd\u0161ku, hmotnos\u0165, v\u00f4\u0148u, hlas. Taktie\u017e sa l\u00ed\u0161ia aj svoj\u00edm charakterom, svojimi postojmi, n\u00e1zormi na \u017eivot a\u00a0tak \u010falej. Ale ak\u00e9ho mu\u017ea \u017eeny h\u013eadaj\u00fa? Jean Paul, nemeck\u00fd humorista, prehl\u00e1sil, \u017ee: \u201e\u017deny h\u013eadaj\u00fa jemn\u00fa du\u0161u a\u00a0mocn\u00e9 telo.\u201c\u00a0 Vskutku treba poveda\u0165, \u017ee \u201cJe\u00e1nko\u201c sa v\u00a0\u017een\u00e1ch ve\u013emi vyznal. Ni\u017e\u0161ie pon\u00fakam men\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdber jeho cit\u00e1tov, ktor\u00e9 v\u00e1m potvrdia, \u017ee v\u00a0\u017een\u00e1ch \u010d\u00edtal ako v\u00a0otvorenej knihe: \t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u201e\u017deny \u010d\u00edtaj\u00fa lep\u0161ie v cudzom srdci ne\u017e vo vlastnom.\u201c\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u201e\u017deny sa pon\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa na \u0161panielske domy: ve\u013ea dvier a m\u00e1lo okien, \u013eah\u0161ie je do ich s\u0155dc vnikn\u00fa\u0165 ako nahliadnu\u0165.\u201c\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u201e\u017deny zn\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa utrpenie lep\u0161ie ako mu\u017ei; len utrpenie l\u00e1sky hor\u0161ie.\u201c\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u201e\u017deny si do\u017ei\u010dia navz\u00e1jom v\u0161etko, ale nie \u0161aty, mu\u017eov a kr\u00e1su.\u201c\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u201eU \u017eien je v\u0161etko srdce, dokonca aj hlava.\u201c\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u201e\u017deny maj\u00fa ve\u013ea s\u00edl, aby vzbudili l\u00e1sku, ale m\u00e1lo s\u00edl, aby sa jej vyhli.\u201c\t\tMy sa spolo\u010dne vr\u00e1\u0165me k\u00a0tomu prv\u00e9mu cit\u00e1tu. Tak\u017ee… \u017deny h\u013eadaj\u00fa JEMN\u00da DU\u0160U a\u00a0MOCN\u00c9 TELO. Veru tak. Chc\u00fa statn\u00e9ho mu\u017ea, preto\u017ee potrebuj\u00fa \u010do? No, predsa OCHRANU. Ony musia c\u00edti\u0165, \u017ee pri tomto \u201cchlapovi\u201c bud\u00fa v\u00a0bezpe\u010d\u00ed aj keby meteority z\u00a0neba padali (obrazne povedan\u00e9). Do ich n\u00e1ru\u010dia sa chc\u00fa ponori\u0165 a\u00a0c\u00edti\u0165 t\u00fa silu ich objatia. Preto \u017eeny pri\u0165ahuj\u00fa vysok\u00ed, svalnatej\u0161\u00ed mu\u017ei so \u0161irok\u00fdmi ramenami a s\u00a0ve\u013ek\u00fdmi dla\u0148ami. (\u010ci\u017ee p\u00e1ni ak tak\u00edto po fyzickej str\u00e1nke ste, m\u00e1te velik\u00e1nske plus.) A\u00a0\u010do s\u00a0tou jemnou du\u0161ou? Ide tu o\u00a0to, \u017ee \u017eeny potrebuj\u00fa takisto c\u00edti\u0165, \u017ee ich niekto ch\u00e1pe, po\u010d\u00fava, podporuje a\u00a0miluje. Nechc\u00fa mu\u017ea, ktor\u00fd bude sebeck\u00fd, hrub\u00fd a\u00a0bude ju pova\u017eova\u0165 za sl\u00fa\u017eku alebo za druh\u00fa mamu, ktor\u00e1 sa o\u00a0neho bude stara\u0165 ako o\u00a0die\u0165a. \t\tTeraz si vezmime do \u00favahy to, \u017ee tie dve vlastnosti sa neskuto\u010dne odli\u0161uj\u00fa… Jemn\u00fd a\u00a0mocn\u00fd. Je to ako jing a\u00a0jang. S\u00fa to rozdiely, ale spolu vytv\u00e1raj\u00fa harm\u00f3niu. Tvoria nie\u010do \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9. Ma\u0165 mu\u017ea, ktor\u00fd m\u00e1 tieto dve (dokonal\u00e9) vlastnosti je snom SKORO ka\u017edej \u017eeny. P\u00ed\u0161em skoro, lebo \u017eeny maj\u00fa aj n\u00edzkych a\u00a0nevy\u0161portovan\u00fdch mu\u017eov. A\u00a0tu sa dost\u00e1vame do toho \u010do je u\u017e ka\u017ed\u00e9mu dobre zn\u00e1me. Preto\u017ee \u010do vid\u00ed lep\u0161ie? O\u010di \u010di srdce? O\u010di vidia vonkaj\u0161iu kr\u00e1su. Vidia materi\u00e1lne a\u00a0zmyslov\u00e9 a\u00a0srdce vid\u00ed vn\u00fatorn\u00fa kr\u00e1su, \u010di\u017ee nezmyslov\u00fa, nemateri\u00e1lnu, a\u00a0teda duchovn\u00fa, bo\u017esk\u00fa. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee aj Jean Paul povedal z\u00e1merne vetu v\u00a0tom porad\u00ed v\u00a0akom je \u2013 najprv jemn\u00e1 du\u0161a a\u00a0potom mocn\u00e9 telo. Lebo na tej du\u0161i z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed najviac.\t\t\u00a0\t\tMu\u017eov odprad\u00e1vna zauj\u00edma \u010do chc\u00fa \u017eeny. Keby im lep\u0161ie na\u010d\u00favali vedeli by to hne\u010f. \u017deny ve\u013ea nazna\u010duj\u00fa. Ich slov\u00e1 maj\u00fa v\u017edy nejak\u00fd hlb\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1mer. Uvediem jeden pr\u00edklad. Man\u017eel nie je so svojou man\u017eelkou tak \u010dasto ako by to ona potrebovala. \u017dena mu to nechce poveda\u0165 na rovinu, lebo sa chce vyhn\u00fa\u0165 pr\u00edpadnej h\u00e1dke alebo mu nechce nie\u010do vy\u010d\u00edta\u0165, a\u00a0tak rad\u0161ej\u00a0 povie: \u201eDrah\u00fd som ve\u013emi \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 v\u00a0tvojej bl\u00edzkosti.\u201c \u00a0T\u00e1to veta n\u00e1m hovor\u00ed, \u017ee \u017eena je skuto\u010dne rada, ke\u010f je jej man\u017eel pri nej, ale na druhej strane mu chce NAZNA\u010cI\u0164, \u017ee by bola ve\u013emi rada keby s\u00a0\u0148ou tr\u00e1vil viac \u010dasu.\tAle tu je ten kame\u0148 \u00farazu, \u017ee mu\u017ei nevedia \u010d\u00edta\u0165 medzi riadkami. Im to treba poveda\u0165 na rovinu. Po mal\u00fdch d\u00e1vkach im treba serv\u00edrova\u0165 \u010do vlastne od nich \u017eeny chc\u00fa. A\u00a0takto sa nau\u010dia prij\u00edma\u0165, ale aj d\u00e1va\u0165 l\u00e1sku a\u00a0v\u0161etko \u010do k\u00a0nej patr\u00ed. Ve\u010f nie nadarmo sa hovor\u00ed, \u017ee si ich treba vycvi\u010di\u0165. Charakter mu\u017ea \u017eeny nezmenia, ale tie mali\u010dkosti k\u00a0ich dobru sa zmeni\u0165 daj\u00fa, lebo osobnos\u0165 \u010dloveka sa neust\u00e1le rozv\u00edja a\u00a0men\u00ed po\u010das cel\u00e9ho \u017eivota.\t\t\tJe \u013eahk\u00e9 z\u00edska\u0165 si srdce \u017eeny, ale na druhej strane je ve\u013ek\u00e1 drina udr\u017ea\u0165 si ho. Ak si ho nechcete iba nadobudn\u00fa\u0165, ale aj zachova\u0165 bu\u010fte k\u00a0\u017een\u00e1m mil\u00ed, pozorn\u00ed, ne\u017en\u00ed, zauj\u00edmajte sa o\u00a0\u0148u. \u017deny zbo\u017e\u0148uj\u00fa prekvapenia, a\u00a0preto jej nejak\u00e9 mil\u00e9 urobte. Bu\u010fte pri nej, ke\u010f je \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1, ale aj ke\u010f jej bud\u00fa pada\u0165 slzy ako hrachy. Vtedy si ju k\u00a0sebe privi\u0148te, povedzte jej ak\u00e1 je \u00fa\u017easn\u00e1 a\u00a0siln\u00e1 \u017eena, nezabudnite ani na \u010darovn\u00e9 slov\u00e1 \u2013 \u013e\u00fabim \u0165a. Ur\u010dite u\u00a0nej zabodujete ak sa ju budete sna\u017ei\u0165 rozveseli\u0165 a\u00a0e\u0161te v\u00e1m to aj vyjde. Vtedy v\u00e1s bude milova\u0165 e\u0161te viac. Policho\u0165te jej, zv\u00e1dzajte ju svoj\u00edm poh\u013eadom.\tNoste ju v\u00a0n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed, lebo \u017eeny odd\u00e1vna t\u00fa\u017eia by\u0165 princezn\u00e9. Bozk\u00e1vajte a\u00a0obj\u00edmajte ju ako keby to bolo prv\u00fd kr\u00e1t. Organizujte v\u00fdlety, aby ste mali \u010d\u00edm viac spolo\u010dn\u00fdch z\u00e1\u017eitkov a\u00a0aktiv\u00edt, lebo nie je ni\u010d hor\u0161ie ako stereotyp vo vz\u0165ahu. Hrajte sa s\u00a0mal\u00fdmi de\u0165mi, lebo to je najsilenej\u0161ie afrodiziakum. A\u00a0nezab\u00fadajte na kvety. Aj ke\u010f \u017eena povie, \u017ee od v\u00e1s ni\u010d k\u00a0sviatku nechce a\u00a0o\u00a0kvetoch nechce ani po\u010du\u0165, lebo s\u00fa pr\u00edli\u0161 drah\u00e9 tak ju nepo\u010d\u00favajte. Klame a\u017e sa jej z\u00a0u\u0161\u00ed par\u00ed. V\u0161etky chc\u00fa kvety a\u00a0dar\u010deky. Nemusia by\u0165 drah\u00e9, ale musia to by\u0165 kvety a\u00a0dar\u010deky. \t\tMil\u00ed mu\u017ei, pl\u0148te \u017een\u00e1m v\u0161etky ich priania, lebo vedzte, \u017ee \u017eena v\u00e1m ich pln\u00ed tie\u017e a\u00a0ston\u00e1sobne viac. A\u00a0\u010d\u00edm viac pre \u0148u urob\u00edte vy, t\u00fdm viac dostanete. Ale pozor! V\u0161etko robte s\u00a0mierou. Pr\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9 staranie sa, lichotenie, a\u00a0tak \u010falej z\u00a0v\u00e1s neurob\u00ed dokonal\u00e9ho mu\u017ea, ale samozrejmos\u0165 a\u00a0to by ste nechceli.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         4.4\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"\u010co \u017eeny h\u013eadaj\u00fa u mu\u017ea?","item":"https:\/\/www.sjm.sk\/co-zeny-hladaju-u-muza\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]